1. Does your man frequently criticize you or put you down?
2. Does your man make decisions without consulting you?
3. Does your man frequently cancel plans or arrive late without a valid reason?
4. Does your man get jealous when you spend time with friends or family?
5. Does your man frequently check your phone or social media accounts without your permission?
6. Does your man try to control what you wear or how you look?
7. Does your man frequently blame you for his problems or mistakes?
8. Does your man frequently use drugs or alcohol to excess?
9. Does your man frequently forget important dates or events?
10. Does your man frequently lie to you about important things?
11. Does your man frequently flirt with other people in front of you?
12. Does your man frequently avoid discussing important issues or topics with you?
13. Does your man frequently disregard your feelings or opinions?
14. Does your man frequently make you feel guilty or ashamed for things that are not your fault?
15. Does your man frequently pressure you into doing things you don't want to do?
16. Does your man frequently ignore your boundaries or violate your privacy?
17. Does your man frequently make you feel unsafe or threatened?
18. Does your man frequently refuse to take responsibility for his actions or apologize when he's wrong?
19. Does your man frequently try to change who you are or make you feel like you're not good enough?
20. Does your man frequently make you feel like you're walking on eggshells around him?